{"id":34415,"date":"2014-11-23T09:15:42","date_gmt":"2014-11-23T14:15:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dailyburn.com\/life\/?p=34415"},"modified":"2021-08-26T15:00:37","modified_gmt":"2021-08-26T19:00:37","slug":"easy-ways-practice-gratitude","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dailyburn.com\/life\/lifestyle\/easy-ways-practice-gratitude\/","title":{"rendered":"9 Easy Ways Gratitude Can Make You Happier, Fitter and Richer"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_34494\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-34494\" style=\"width: 620px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-34494\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn-life.dailyburn.com\/life\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/10044615\/Gratitude_2.jpg\" alt=\"Photo: Pond5\" width=\"620\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn-life.dailyburn.com\/life\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/10044615\/Gratitude_2.jpg 620w, https:\/\/cdn-life.dailyburn.com\/life\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/10044615\/Gratitude_2-300x193.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-34494\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photo: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pond5.com\/photo\/40476378\/boy-thank-you-sign.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Pond5<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Your parents taught you to mind your manners. You write thank you notes and tip your barista. But there\u2019s more to being grateful than going through the motions. According to numerous studies, true gratitude is <a href=\"https:\/\/greatergood.berkeley.edu\/pdfs\/GratitudePDFs\/2Wood-GratitudeWell-BeingReview.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">a powerful force<\/a> that can improve your relationships, increase happiness and even <a href=\"https:\/\/www.stybelpeabody.com\/newsite\/pdf\/gratitude.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">boost immunity<\/a>. Deep down, most of us know this to be true. But we still have trouble taking time from our <a href=\"https:\/\/dailyburn.com\/life\/lifestyle\/organization-tips-reduce-stress\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">busy lives<\/a> to actually stop, reflect and give thanks for what matters most. The good news: Making the effort to get grateful is easier than you\u2019d expect, and it\u2019s way more effective that you might imagine.<b>\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<h3><b>Why It Pays to Be Grateful<\/b><\/h3>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cFeeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Spend just minutes each day reflecting on what you\u2019re grateful for and we can pretty much guarantee you\u2019ll see a snowball effect resulting in physical, psychological and social benefits. Here\u2019s the catch: You need to get grateful throughout the year \u2014 not just on Thanksgiving.<\/p>\n<p>One study published in the <a href=\"https:\/\/ggsc-web02.ist.berkeley.edu\/images\/application_uploads\/Wood-GratitudeSleep.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Journal of Psychosomatic Research<\/a> confirmed that individuals who had a more grateful outlook got better quality shut eye, stayed asleep longer and required less time to fall asleep than their less grateful peers. Perhaps more impressive, people who spent times focusing on grateful thoughts exercised for 1.5 more hours each week, compared to people who spent time focusing on the hassles in their life, according to a study in the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psy.miami.edu\/faculty\/mmccullough\/gratitude\/Emmons_McCullough_2003_JPSP.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Journal of Personality and Social Psychology<\/a>. Plus, at least <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pubmed\/21923564\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">eight studies<\/a> have shown that people who express gratitude tend to show fewer symptoms of depression.<\/p>\n<p><b>RELATED:<\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/dailyburn.com\/life\/lifestyle\/exercise-coping-with-grief-sadness\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Sweating Out the Sadness: Can Exercise Help You Grieve?<\/a><\/p>\n<p>A grateful state of mind can help you win big in business, too. Once study conducted at <a href=\"https:\/\/hbr.org\/2014\/04\/gratitude-is-the-new-willpower\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Harvard Business School<\/a>, found that participants who were prompted to think of a time when they were grateful were less likely to act impulsively when it came to financial choices when compared with people who were prompted to think of something happy or neutral. Gratitude increases our level of patience, researchers suggested.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFeeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it,\u201d\u00a0William Arthur Ward, an American writer, once said. In honor of Thanksgiving, here are nine simple ways to cultivate gratefulness every other day of the year.<\/p>\n<h3><b>10 Easy Ways to Start Being More Grateful<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><b>1. Bust out your old diary.<br \/>\n<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.cfidsselfhelp.org\/library\/counting-your-blessings-how-gratitude-improves-your-healthhttps:\/\/www.cfidsselfhelp.org\/library\/counting-your-blessings-how-gratitude-improves-your-health\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Studies<\/a> show that people who make weekly gratitude journal entries feel better about their lives and more optimistic about the future. Not into breaking out the pen and paper? Try using an app. We like <a href=\"https:\/\/app.fiveminutejournal.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Five Minute Journal<\/a>, which prompts you to write down three things you\u2019re grateful for, three things that would make the day awesome and three affirmations (e.g. \u201cI am confident,\u201d \u201cI am kind\u201d) each day.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_34499\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-34499\" style=\"width: 620px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-34499\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn-life.dailyburn.com\/life\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/10044614\/Gratitude-Letter.jpg\" alt=\"Photo: Pond5\" width=\"620\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn-life.dailyburn.com\/life\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/10044614\/Gratitude-Letter.jpg 620w, https:\/\/cdn-life.dailyburn.com\/life\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/10044614\/Gratitude-Letter-300x193.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-34499\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photo: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pond5.com\/photo\/19155079\/receiving-letter.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Pond5<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><b>2. Write a letter to someone who left a mark.<br \/>\n<\/b>Remember that teacher or professor who helped you explore your passions? Or the coach who gave you the confidence to win that game? Grab some stationary and write out a handwritten thank you. According to Martin Seligman, an internationally renowned psychologist and author of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/ASIN\/1439190763\/braipick-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><i>Flourish: A Visionary New Understanding of Happiness and Wellbeing<\/i><\/a>, you\u2019ll benefit from the pleasant memories of positive events and people in your life. \u00a0Plus, your recipient will feel pretty darn great reading about your fond memories of them. If you want to make thank you notes a weekly habit, gratitude-focused subscription service <a href=\"https:\/\/gramr.us\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Gramr.us<\/a> will send you enough paper and envelopes to write four notes a month.<\/p>\n<p><b>3. Appreciate the mundane.<br \/>\n<\/b>Once you get into a routine at home, you might start taking your partner or your housemates for granted. It\u2019s easy to overlook daily tasks. But small acts of kindness, (like when a roommate cleans out the fridge without being asked) make your daily life easier. In one study published in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedaily.com\/releases\/2010\/05\/100524072912.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><i>Personal Relationships<\/i><\/a>, showing everyday gratitude for these mundane acts helped improve and even strengthen relationships with significant others. Bonus: The effects weren\u2019t just immediate \u2014 they lasted for days.<\/p>\n<p><b>RELATED:<\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/dailyburn.com\/life\/lifestyle\/tips-for-finding-happiness\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">17 Ways to Get Back to Being Happy<\/a><\/p>\n<p><b>4. Bring gratitude to office grouches.<br \/>\n<\/b>Even your sometimes-grumpy boss could use some recognition. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedaily.com\/releases\/2012\/03\/120329100901.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">One study<\/a> showed that when powerful, insecure people received gratitude from subordinates, they were less likely to exhibit aggressive behavior. The corner office gets lonely, so show them some love and you just might be treated better in the future.<\/p>\n<p><b>5. Compliment someone.<br \/>\n<\/b>There\u2019s nothing like being on the receiving end of genuine praise \u2014 so why not make someone else\u2019s day? Tell someone he or she looks\u00a0 awesome, did a great job<ins cite=\"mailto:Jordan\" datetime=\"2014-11-19T10:47\">,<\/ins> or rocked a workout. They\u2019ll feel like a million bucks \u2014 quite literally. Receiving a compliment lights up the same regions of the brain that get activated when you receive cold hard cash, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.forbes.com\/sites\/daviddisalvo\/2012\/11\/09\/study-receiving-a-compliment-has-same-positive-effect-as-receiving-cash\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">studies suggest<\/a>. This region of the brain controls memory and learning, and researchers believe compliments can help us perform better for days after being given praise.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_34496\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-34496\" style=\"width: 620px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-34496\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn-life.dailyburn.com\/life\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/10044615\/Gratitude-coffee_2.jpg\" alt=\"Photo: Pond5\" width=\"620\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn-life.dailyburn.com\/life\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/10044615\/Gratitude-coffee_2.jpg 620w, https:\/\/cdn-life.dailyburn.com\/life\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/10044615\/Gratitude-coffee_2-300x193.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-34496\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photo: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pond5.com\/photo\/41397440\/waitress-holding-tray-cappuccinos.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Pond5<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><b>6. Thank behind-the-scenes people.<br \/>\n<\/b>From waiters and baristas, to cabbies and cleaning men and women, there are lots of people who help your life run smoothly. If someone has provided you a service, take a minute to ask his or her name and let him or her know you wouldn\u2019t be able to function without that cup of coffee or late-night ride home. According to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedaily.com\/releases\/2014\/08\/140828110810.htm\">recent research<\/a>, thanking new acquaintances for help can ensure that they\u2019ll have your back in the future.<\/p>\n<p><b>RELATED:<\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/dailyburn.com\/life\/lifestyle\/how-to-become-a-morning-person\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">19 Ways to Trick Yourself Into Becoming A Morning Person<\/a><\/p>\n<p><b>7. Give credit where credit\u2019s due.<br \/>\n<\/b>Just finished a big collaborative project at work? Be the one to publicly toot everyone else\u2019s horn. Recognizing how each person contributed to the success of the group will create a sense of community and can make individuals more motivated to bring their A-game next time around, suggests <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedaily.com\/releases\/2012\/11\/121109111517.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">research<\/a> from psychologists in Japan. Not the type to shout your appreciation from the rooftops? Write someone\u2019s manager a note to report excellent service.<\/p>\n<p><b>8. Make it a public affair.<br \/>\n<\/b>Posting on social media or participating in an online gratitude project can help you pay your grateful feelings forward. According to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.livescience.com\/46609-facebook-emotions-contagious.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">data scientists at Facebook<\/a>, emotions are contagious on the social network. Post a grateful status update and your friends just might feel more positive. Don\u2019t want to bombard your personal newsfeed every day? At <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thegratitudejar.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Gratitude Jar<\/a>, read why other people around the world are feeling grateful, and add your own positive thoughts to the \u201cjar.\u201d Or, put your blessings on the <a href=\"https:\/\/gratitude.crowdmap.com\/main\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">World Gratitude Map<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><b>9. Put gratitude before gossip.<br \/>\n<\/b>Catching up with friends over a few beers? Instead of immediately ranting about a bad roommate, demanding boss or weird date, start by sharing the positive highlights of your life. Talking through hardships is important, but sharing the good stuff with your buddies can help you feel happier and even help you cope with the truly sucky things that occur.<\/p>\n<p>Gratitude isn\u2019t about believing that life is perfect, writes Robert Emmons in <a href=\"https:\/\/greatergood.berkeley.edu\/article\/item\/why_gratitude_is_good\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><i>Why Gratitude Is Good<\/i><\/a><i>.<\/i> Rather, it\u2019s about identifying happiness when we look at our lives as a whole.<\/p>\n<p><i>How does your family express gratitude on Thanksgiving \u2014 and every day?<\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ditch the haterade. Gratitude will improve your health and relationships, and we\u2019ve got plenty of simple ways to get you started!  <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":8,"featured_media":34500,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[8,12,15],"tags":[104,187,189,280,345,409],"class_list":["post-34415","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lifestyle","category-mental-health","category-stress","tag-goals","tag-happiness","tag-holiday","tag-sleep","tag-tax1conditions","tag-tax2chronic-pain"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailyburn.com\/life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34415","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailyburn.com\/life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailyburn.com\/life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailyburn.com\/life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailyburn.com\/life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=34415"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/dailyburn.com\/life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34415\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailyburn.com\/life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/34500"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailyburn.com\/life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=34415"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailyburn.com\/life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=34415"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailyburn.com\/life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=34415"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}